My hubby and I have been married for 12 yrs he just turned 39. I thought our marriage was going great. He told me he wants a divorse there is not passion and he does not love me. He said he cheated on me too. Im in shock.
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I asked if he would try to work it out he said no he is detached and he doesn't love me. He cares and I will always have a special place in his heart but he wants to have fun and date ppl and sleep with anyone. He said we don't have anything in common but we share all the same intrest except getting drunk. He said we don't have good conversations but that he does with the 21 yr old. Im crushed he knows that is not true. He told me to go sleep with someone else and let him know if I wanted to get back with him.
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In november he became distant I thought it was because his brother got sick and is dying. They both have cystic fibrosis. I comforted him but let him have the space he needed. Everything seemed fine until then. Well, our xmas parties were on the same night so we went to them alone and I think that is the night he sleep with his 21 coworker.? After that they would text and call eachother all the time but he hid it. He started staying out really late and not coming home.? He keeps saying she is just a really good friend with benifits.
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Well, I moved out cause he left on the weekends to go stay in hotels he said he couldn't be around me crying. I know they were together the whole time.? He has sence had her stay at the house they hang out all the time. He changed the locks on the doors and the photos that he wanted so bad he put in a closet. He said he didn't want a relationship and just wanted to be alone and date ppl but this looks like a relationship.? I am so scared because I want this to work out. I am hoping he will realize that the grass isn't green on the otherside and come back. Everyone tells me he is gone and he will not come back? but I just can't believe he doesn't feel for me. I am so scared because he is my soulmate and I don't want this to be over.
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He did leave me before we got married but I don't know if he cheated on me but he came back. This is a little different please pray for God to save my marriage and open my husbands heart. I know that we got to comfortable and I didn't show him enough passion but I am willing to change that. I am afraid that he thinks he loves this 21 year old but when he gets sick and can't party she wont take care of him. 36 is the life expectancy of CF patients don't get me wrong he is doing really good but in 10 yrs I don't know if he will be. I want to be by his side that is where god put me I chose this life. He told me he didn't tell her he has cf and that he doesn't feel that way about her and never would but hes so full of lies. Evil has got ahold of him.
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He also asked why I want to be with someone who is sick and that he diserves to die alone.. i don't know if he ment that or just said that so I would feel bad for him. I will wait for him for him I can't see myself with anyone else.
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