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But I feel now is the time. Me and my bf have been going out for about 2 months now, not a long time, but it feels like it. He is also my very first bf or gf, never had neither. When we first started dating, we both felt very strongly for each other. For me, the newness of talking to a guy in that way was so thrilling that it caused me to believe I was in love.

My feelings started to change after a while. Im not sure what caused it, but somehow I went from being stupidly in love, to trying to avoid him. One of the things I grew to hate was the word "love" because I knew that I did not love him, yet he continuously said it to me. I stupidly said it back, meaning it at first, but then I started to hate hearing it. He had become very clingy, and its my fault. So I then told him that we needed to cool it, no more love talk, and start over from scratch. He agreed, and it was cool for a while. But now Im no longer interested in a serious relationship. I just want to have fun, without the drama of "why didnt you call me" and all that stuff.

I know that Im the bad guy here, and thats what really hurts me. He is really caring and nice, but I'm not ready for that type of relationship right now. I know I'm going to break his heart so bad, heck hes messaging me now as I type about coming to see me tonight. This is gonna suck...any advice? Should I try to wait my feelings out? Should I break up with him? How should I do it?

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